In taking these steps, there is freedom.  We don't have to cover anything up, we don't have to pretend anything, we don't have to defend ourselves and it often disarms the anger and disappointment that our errors may cause in others. 

 

Admitting our mistakes also makes us wonderfully human.  If we can just be our imperfect selves then we don't have to expect perfection.  It also enables us to be more compassionate toward others' human-ness. 

 

I understand that it requires that we allow ourselves to be vulnerable when we admit our foibles.  For some people that is very uncomfortable.  However, when you can accept your own imperfections, I'm pretty sure that those who care about you will also be willing to accept them.  In fact, you are likely to find that others may be more kind to you than you are to yourself.

 

So, I challenge you to take the risk and allow yourself the freedom that goes along with taking responsibility!